Shil wrote on Jul 27, 2007 7:00 AM:
" I feel that TV is a very limited medium. A noisy, flickering ad-filled medium. it has its few good points, as someone pointed out, parts of discovery channel for example. but I find that if i just switch off the TV, i can actually do things i enjoy, once i get over the passive fun of TV. there are a few hundred TV channels running advertisements half the time. but there are millions of books to read. then there is music - a different type for every mood or time of day.
We miss out on so much by watching TV. I did not have TV while growing up, until i was 17. now i feel that it was a blessing. Thats the only reason i could read so much: because i was bored. I think that being bored is necessary in order to be creative. "
Get Informed: Read The Research wrote on Nov 14, 2006 11:23 AM:
" A lot of people don't understand the sequence of brain development. If you read the brain research, you'll discover that the very young child DEPENDS upon movement and imitation to develop as nature designed. Someone who is well-informed about brain development simply would NOT put their beloved pre-schooler in front of a TV or computer screen. After the age of 10 the brain is at a different phase of development and electronic media is not quite so harmful. It's not a question of "TV: the villian"...it's a question of the right thing at the right time. "
to 'mom' wrote on Nov 13, 2006 2:13 PM:
" I also agree with Re: from a mom. Making TV completely off limits could backfire when kids get older and go to friends' houses. A limited dose of tv is fine. I watched full house, family matters, and lots of great shows when I was little. But I also was a tomboy who loved running around the forests, and I sometimes even pretended I was a character from a favorite tv show. "
Chico wrote on Nov 11, 2006 8:18 PM:
" There are two problems associated with EXCESSIVE TV watching: (1)obesity, and (2) watching so much TV that it's all the child does. As long as parents can determine when either of these two problems is occurring, there's no need to buy into the idea that TV will turn your kids into zombies. There is ample evidence that kids' brains are working when they're watching TV. TV is okay. Just figure out the right amount to watch and the right shows. "
TV can be awesome wrote on Nov 11, 2006 1:36 PM:
" What about Saturday mornig cartoons? I loved watching them as a kid with a big bowl of cereal! How about the Discovery channel? What a way to learn about different animals, people, and places! No tv in your house is limiting. "
I Love TV! wrote on Nov 11, 2006 8:28 AM:
" My two boys are very energetic and imaginative. So much so,they run themselves into exhaustion. As a result, the cartoons are needed in our house just to get my boys to shut their brains off! The mind numbing effects of TV can be a boon. As for playing with pine cones and chestnuts...sounds kind of primal to me; we prefer plastic legos,action figures and the occasional stic or rock (the latter natural objects make for good swords and bombs/magic beans). Yes TV can be bad, but don't be a hater! With parental control, it is good for some families. Parents need a break too! "
Re: to Kim wrote on Nov 10, 2006 6:55 PM:
" I understand where you are coming from-I miss those games/toys from the past too! However, one of the other main reasons that you don't see swings, teeter-totters, etc. is b/c of our lawsuit-happy society. "
Re: from a Mom wrote on Nov 10, 2006 5:20 PM:
" I agree with you about television, up to a point. We have a little neighbor girl who comes over to play and her family does not watch tv either. If our tv is on, she is completely mesmerized by it. She can't get enough of it. I think limited amount of educational children shows might be better in her household. "
to Kim wrote on Nov 10, 2006 4:43 PM:
" you make a good point, but look around, kids can't play 'dodgeball' because it may make others feel inferior, tag is off limits because there may be a 'collision', teeter totters and swings are a no no. i see way too many so called 'experts' telling others how they should raise their kids. in my opinion if a person needs someone to tell them what is best for their kid, maybe they weren't mature enough to have any in the first place. we need to get back to parents just being parents and kids just being kids, and cut out all the touchy feely bull crap. "
To "Mom" wrote on Nov 10, 2006 3:49 PM:
" You rock! You're probably going to end up with a really well-adjusted daughter who enjoys the company of her family. People will look at you like you're a wierdo but keep doing what you're doing. Your family will be much better for it! "
Kim wrote on Nov 10, 2006 3:00 PM:
" Get outside, play, run! There's nothing wrong with chores either, it teaches responsibility and things that they need to know how to do, like cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.
I bet it would help a lot of overweight kids too. "
TV sucks out your brains wrote on Nov 10, 2006 12:58 PM:
" especially if you're a kid. That's what the American Pediatrics Assn says. That's what many psychologists and child experts say. Besides the programming, there's also the issue of child marketing. The parts of the brain that engage while one is watching tv are not the parts that young children need to be developing. Read the literature. Check out the research at http://www.tvturnoff.org/research.htm "
from a mom wrote on Nov 10, 2006 12:27 PM:
" We have not had a television in our house for 10 years. Our daughter is 15 months, and I work full time. As I listen to my co-workers this morning talk about the latest person to get voted off some reality show I think about the pictures my daughter and I made with finger paints last night, and the books that we read together. I would not trade this time for anything in the world. Esp not a television show or computer game. I fail to understand the working parent that watches tv and plays video games. Time is so valuable. Why spend it doing something so unproductive? "
Nobody "needs" TV wrote on Nov 10, 2006 12:10 PM:
" I haven't watched broadcast television in years. We do rent videos through Netflix and have seen some great programs (without commercials!) and really aren't missing a thing. News is much easier to get through the internet and comes without the biases of the broadcast networks. More time is available for reading, doing house and yard work and enjoying the company of my partner. TV is a mind killer. Turn it off and enjoy life! "
Relieved Mom wrote on Nov 10, 2006 11:11 AM:
" Thank you for helping those of us who mostly just hang around with our children just doing day to day things feel better for not running constantly and overscheduling. I find being together, whether in the house, or just taking a walk, seems to make them most happy. I don't have to worry about them always wanting the next big toy or adventure to keep from being bored. "
Chico wrote on Nov 10, 2006 9:48 AM:
" TV is a villain? Sounds like somebody has an agenda. Let's be reasonable. Like everything else, TV in moderation is not a bad thing. There is actually evidence that suggests it enhances creativity. There's also substantial evidence that kids do not passively watch TV, and that their brains are engaged while they're watching. Anybody remember when comic books were considered the work of the devil? What about books themselves? Parents, don't be taken in by this alarmist attitude. "
Dan wrote on Nov 10, 2006 8:35 AM:
" You're absolutely right. Adults do feel guilty about working too much and not being there for kids. They compensate often times by giving the kids everthing their hearts desire in the name of "I want my kids to have what I didn't have". What this means is they run up debt on credit cards and put the entire family in jepardy. Kids do not need parents to structure every minute of their time, nor do they need every gimick that presents itself.
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