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Published - Wednesday, February 07, 2007

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Birthday boy shuns gifts, gathers food for friends in need


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For his 11th birthday, Caleb Miller decided the gifts should go to his neighbors.

His parents, Jill and Wade Miller, had told the fifth-grader that neighbors and fellow Emerson Elementary School parents Cynthia and Kurt Billmeyer were having health problems.
Caleb Miller recieves an award from Cynthia Billmeyer for helping her family . Miller instead of gifts for his birthday , he wanted his classmates to bring food for the billmeyer family . Dick Riniker photo

Cynthia Billmeyer was laid up for six weeks after surgery Dec. 15, while Kurt Billmeyer started cancer chemotherapy Dec. 21.

So Caleb asked his buddies to bring groceries rather than gifts to his football/tailgate birthday party Dec. 30.

The next day, he and his cousin loaded his wagon with six overflowing bags of groceries and delivered them to the Billmeyers. Caleb also brought a couple of toys for the Billmeyers’ 8-year-old daughter, Allison, an Emerson third-grader.

“He grabbed my heart,” Cynthia Bill-meyer said. “I was really touched and overwhelmed, and I couldn’t believe a kid would do this for us. I felt so much gratitude.”

Caleb said the Billmeyers needed help in hard times more than he needed gifts.

“It was good to give,” he said. “I already had so much, and I didn’t need any more toys or presents.”

On Tuesday, Cynthia Billmeyer returned the favor.

She surprised Caleb at Emerson with an award from Angel on My Shoulder, a St. Germain, Wis.-based organization that works to improve the lives of people affected by cancer.

“Caleb was an angel on my shoulder because of his caring and compassion,” she said.

In addition to the award certificate, she gave Caleb a bag full of toys donated by Angel on My Shoulder as belated birthday presents.

“I was surprised,” Caleb said. “I didn’t expect this.

“I feel happy about what I did, and it’s something I would do again,” he said. “My hope is others will do the same.”

Cynthia Billmeyer said Caleb inspired her daughter to cut her hair and donate it to the Locks of Love organization.

“Everyone needs help sooner or later,” Cynthia Billmeyer said. “We all can do something like give food to the food pantry.”

Jill Miller said she was touched by a boy who couldn’t afford a present for the birthday party but was so excited to donate two cans of soup.

She said she is proud of her son, but added what Caleb did was not unique or special.

“We try to build Christ in our children’s hearts,” Jill Miller said. “We all can be generous at heart.”

Terry Rindfleisch can be reached at trindfleisch@lacrossetribune.com or (608) 791-8227.
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so nice to see wrote on Feb 8, 2007 2:29 PM:

" It's so nice to see a news story that doesn't focus on alcohol, murder, etc. Thank you Caleb for giving us a wonderful story and for giving your neighbor's such a wonderful gift. With such a great heart, you are sure to find success in life. Kudos also to all the kids that brought these "gifts" to the birthday party & to their parents for participating) and to Caleb's parents for instilling such great values. "

Linda wrote on Feb 8, 2007 8:06 AM:

" I just wish we had more young people that give to those in need. I am proud of that young man to do this on his birthday. It really shows that there good young people left here in La Crosse. We could all take a lesson from this act of kindness!!!!!!!! "

Gloria wrote on Feb 7, 2007 8:01 PM:

" We are So proud of you..... keep up your good works. You are a very special young man, Love to you..... GLoria and family.... XOXOXOXOXO "

Gloria wrote on Feb 7, 2007 7:59 PM:

" We are so proud of you and your family. Keep it up Caleb..... love.. to you "

Excellent story wrote on Feb 7, 2007 7:10 PM:

" Not only was what he did a very generous and kind thing, but he has finally brought everyone together in a message board. Everyone has to agree that what Caleb and his classmates did was a very nice thing. This was a nice break from the usual stories that get everyone bickering on here. The rest of us adults can learn something from this. Thanks Caleb.. Your parents must be proud. "

binte wrote on Feb 7, 2007 3:33 PM:

" BRAVO!!! "

Trib Reader wrote on Feb 7, 2007 1:06 PM:

" I think Caleb's parents should be commended as well for instilling such compassion into their child/children. You find 'diamonds in the rough' like this too seldom these days! And I'm not just talking about kids. Thank YOU for inspiring ME as well Caleb. "

Freezing Farmers wrote on Feb 7, 2007 12:10 PM:

" Commendable young man! We all could take lesson from such an act of kindness towards our neighbors! Just think if his parent wouldnt have taken the time to know theirs! Gives us new hope towards the world! "

crying... wrote on Feb 7, 2007 10:50 AM:

" This story seriously brought tears to my eyes! Wow...such compassion. "

to: Great Job wrote on Feb 7, 2007 10:50 AM:

" Thanks for the info. site birthdaysforcharity.org I will have my daughter check it out after school. She has picked a "Charity Birthday" for the past three years, her own idea, and has experienced how awsome it feels to give rather than to receive. Were making Birthday memories. Some of her friends have started doing the same, PAY IT FORWARD. "

Great Job wrote on Feb 7, 2007 9:08 AM:

" This is a great idea. Good job Caleb!! FYI - there is also a local family that has taken this idea a step further. They have created a website to promote the idea of "birthdays for charities" that they started in their own family - http://birthdaysforcharity.org. I encourage you to check it out. "

so sweet!!! wrote on Feb 7, 2007 9:07 AM:

" I hope that Caleb stays that way forever... We need more caring people like this in the world... :) "

wow wrote on Feb 7, 2007 9:04 AM:

" What an amazing story! It is so wonderful to read something positive about kids. Thank you to the Tribune for sharing this story, and thank you to the generous birthday boy and party goers! "

What a great example wrote on Feb 7, 2007 7:41 AM:

" If only all children were as generous and kind. When I see the kids around me demand this toy or that, I'll remember this selfless little boy. I would bet that the warm feelings he got from doing something so considerate will bring him more happiness than a worthless toy (which would end up broken soon). This is a great lesson for us all! "

Daryl wrote on Feb 7, 2007 12:52 AM:

" And your classmates should also be commended for being so generous with their gifts and assistance. Good Job Emerson 5th Grade Givers!!! "

Daryl wrote on Feb 7, 2007 12:49 AM:

" Caleb Miller: even at your young age, you are a shining example of how we can all be. A lot of us give through our churches, but regardless of religious affiliations (or none at all), we can all follow your lead and help someone that is less fortunate or just simply falling on bad times. Your actions speak volumes about the man you are, and the man you will someday be. Good Job!!! "

inspired wrote on Feb 7, 2007 12:41 AM:

" What a beautiful story. I am inspired to give to someone else. "


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