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Published - Saturday, September 01, 2007

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Iowa judge stays gay marriage decision after one couple weds


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DES MOINES, Iowa -— Two men sealed the state’s first legal same-sex marriage with a kiss Friday morning, less than 24 hours after a judge threw out Iowa’s ban on gay marriage and about two hours before he put the ruling on hold.

It was a narrow window of opportunity.
Thursday afternoon, Polk County Judge Robert Hanson temporarily cleared the way for same-sex couples across the state to apply for marriage licenses in Polk County when he ruled that Iowa’s 1998 Defense of Marriage Act, which allowed marriage only between a man and a woman, violated the constitutional rights of due process and equal protection of six gay couples who had sued.

County attorney John Sarcone promised a quick appeal, and he asked Hanson to stay his ruling until the appeal was resolved.

A dozen gay and lesbian couples were waiting at the county recorder’s office when it opened Friday morning.

By 11 a.m., 20 had applied for marriage licenses when Recorder Julie Haggerty announced that she had been instructed to stop accepting the applications. Hanson told The Associated Press about an hour and half later that he had formally stayed his ruling.

The judge’s stay means the recorder’s office is not permitted to accept any more marriage applications from gay couples until the Iowa Supreme Court rules on the county’s appeal.

Sean Fritz and Tim McQuillan were among the lucky few to get their application through.

The marriage license approval process normally takes three business days, but Fritz and McQuillan took advantage of a loophole that allows couples to skip the waiting period if they pay a $5 fee and get a judge to sign a waiver.

On Friday morning, the Rev. Mark Stringer declared the two Iowa State University students legally married in a wedding on Unitarian minister’s front lawn in Des Moines.

“This is it. We’re married. I love you,” Fritz told McQuillan after the ceremony.

Fritz explained their hurry: “We’re both in our undergrad programs, and we thought maybe we’d put it off until applying at graduate school, but when this opportunity came up, we thought maybe we wouldn’t get the opportunity again.”

Republican House Minority Leader Christopher Rants, said the ruling illustrates the need for a state constitutional amendment banning gay marriage.

“I can’t believe this is happening in Iowa,” Rants said. “I guarantee you there will be a vote on this issue come January,” when the Legislature convenes.

Gov. Chet Culver left open the possibility of state action.

“While some Iowans may disagree on this issue, I personally believe marriage is between a man and a woman,” the governor said.

Gay marriage is legal in Massachusetts, and nine other states have approved spousal rights in some form for same-sex couples. Nearly all states have defined marriage as being solely between a man and a woman, and 27 states have such wording in their constitutions, according the National Conference of State Legislatures.

Dennis Johnson, a lawyer for the six gay couples who sued after being denied marriage licenses in 2005, said Iowa has a long history of aggressively protecting civil rights in cases of race and gender. The Defense of Marriage Act contradicts previous rulings regarding civil rights and is simply “mean spirited,” he said.

Roger J. Kuhle, an assistant Polk County attorney, argued that the issue was not for a judge to decide.

Hanson ruled that the state law banning same-sex marriage must be nullified, severed and stricken from the books, and the marriage laws “must be read and applied in a gender neutral manner so as to permit same-sex couples to enter into a civil marriage ...”

“This is kind of the American Dream,” said plaintiff Jen BarbouRoske, of Iowa City. “I’m still feeling kind of shaky. It’s pure elation. I just cannot believe it.”

Kate Varnum of Cedar Rapids, another plaintiff, said she was elated but expected more legal battles: “I don’t expect this to be the last one.”

Even though the county Web site explaining how to apply for a marriage license still began with the words, “Marriages in Iowa are between a male and a female ...,” several couples were waiting when the county recorder’s office opened at 7:30 a.m. Friday.

Katy Farlow and Larissa Boeck, both Iowa State University students, were waiting in lawn chairs outside.

“This might be our only chance,” Farlow said. “We already knew we were spending the rest of our lives together.”

Associated Press writers David Pitt and Nafeesa Syeed in Des Moines contributed to this report.
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Re; I knew it wrote on Sep 2, 2007 12:05 PM:

" Next, maybe you can have the white zebras with black stripes segregated from the black zebras with white stripes so they can't interbreed, and destroy the purity of their seperate races. Are you for real???? We are all human beings, no matter what our skin color is. It is blind fools like you who are the cause of all the hatred and wars on this planet. Try live and let live. "

Divorce rate understanding wrote on Sep 2, 2007 7:58 AM:

" When someone posts that the divorce rate is at 60% it sounds like 6 out of 10 marriages end in divorce. The truth of the matter is that these divorce rates don't consider the Liz Taylors or Rush Limbaugh's who get married and divorced many times. If Liz and Rush is in your sample group of 10 people then your other 8 people stay married for life. Overall many, many studies shows that a monogomous, heterosexual marriage is most benificial to raising stable kids and having individual fulfillment. Unfortunately, too many young people have bought the Hollywood lie that Married people have less fun/sex/happiness, so they seek to live the 'wild' swinging single life. This swinging single life is what leads to so many people getting divorce, because marriage depends on sacrifice and commitment. "

To: Whoa Trigger wrote on Sep 1, 2007 11:40 PM:

" You are an excellent candidate for Rush Limbaugh's job when he retires or gets sentenced to jail for illegal drugs again. With a 60% divorce rate though, your ideas might make more sense than today's version of heterosexual marriage. When the benefits and assets line up, bail. "

The I knew it comment.. wrote on Sep 1, 2007 11:36 PM:

" You need to take UWLs EFN 205 class. How dare you say such a thing as interracial marriages are bad. Lets get down to it because I doubt you are 100% of something and I doubt your signifigant other is 100% the same ethnicity as you are. Maybe you should investigate human migrations and you will be suprised to find out you original families ethnicity. It is people like you that make this a bad place for my family to live. "

Curtis wrote on Sep 1, 2007 9:28 PM:

" Cowardice. Pure and simple cowardice. How bad are these bigots' marriages if ANYONE else's marriage can have any affect whatsoever on theirs? Cowards! It can't be said enough. Cowards! "

Whoa Trigger! wrote on Sep 1, 2007 9:16 PM:

" I love my horse! Can I marry him so that I can get him health care benefits? The vet bills are really starting to add up! "

How can you people be so hateful? wrote on Sep 1, 2007 4:39 PM:

" Haven't you ever watched gays demonstrate their beautiful lifestyles like in the NY St. Patricks Day Parade or any parade in San Fransisco? How can you hate a lifestyle that is so colorful and full of imagination? Every child should be forced to watch all those public displays of affection. "

Remember, it all started with tolerance.... wrote on Sep 1, 2007 2:40 PM:

" ......and now, even that isn't good enough for those who so often preach it to the unenlightened masses; this movement has gone past the demand for tolerance of things that the great majority of us find sinful and disgusting, and is now demanding that we EMBRACE and APPLAUD their chosen lifestyle, for fear of being labeled a bigot, homophobe, hate monger, et. al. if we disagree or dislike. When can Christians expect this type of respect and civility that these people have usurped of late, in this increasingly hedonistic world? Shameful. "

To "I knew it" wrote on Sep 1, 2007 2:28 PM:

" Boy you sure fooled some people! They actually think you believe that there shouldn't be inter-racial marriage. To those attacking "I knew it"....she is using bad Biblical knowledge and sarcasm to try to insinuate that the Bible is not a good source to base ones laws/beliefs on. Now, post the Bible verses that forbid inter-racial marriage. When you fail maybe you will realize that you posed a strawman argument, that fools no one who really studies the Bible. "

Re: I knew it wrote on Sep 1, 2007 1:38 PM:

" We are all of one race. Some have more pigment than others. As for allowing same sex marriage, I am against it. God absolutely is against this! He gave them up to their own desires because He knew that all have free will. They will regret it in the end when they are judged and if they have not repented. "

J Larson wrote on Sep 1, 2007 1:28 PM:

" To: ~I knew it-- You are unbelievable! Your behavior is learned. Who taught you such hatred? People are People. Some people are better than others, but, better at what? And who decides that? Not you. Not me. Get on with your day. GO do something nice for someone. A simple random act of kindness. You will feel better. Then come back to the blog. Please. It hurts m eyes to read such meaninless hatred. "

To: Unbelievable! wrote on Sep 1, 2007 12:48 PM:

" You really should get out once in awhile. "

AZICIT wrote on Sep 1, 2007 12:00 PM:

" A good thing! "

re: i knew it... wrote on Sep 1, 2007 11:39 AM:

" What? Please tell me the Bible passage where it says interracial marriages are a sin. For closed and simple minded people like you the world must be coming to an end. I think you're forgetting one important commandment "there is no other judge except God" "

to a nation in trouble wrote on Sep 1, 2007 11:33 AM:

" The beauty of our government system is that it has three functioning branches. And, suprise! The judicial branch has the power to declare whether laws are consistent with the constitution or, in this case, nondiscrimination policies. It is one of many checks in the system of checks and balances. I mean, unless you'd rather we just do away with the judicial branch and not worry about the constitutionality of our laws, in which case I'd say maybe this nation really is in trouble. "

don't exspect too many comments on this article. wrote on Sep 1, 2007 11:19 AM:

" That's because the editors wont let any comments onto the board that might put homosexuals in a bad light and make them upset. Which is perfectly fine, because we all know that homosexuality is normal and homosexuals shouldn't be iritated. "

GO IOWA wrote on Sep 1, 2007 10:06 AM:

" I'm very happy that this is happening. I am a straight female, but have many gay friends. I believe that in 50 years, we're going to look back on this and ask what the hell were we thinking. Just like we do now with women's rights and african American rights. GO IOWA, and congratulations! "

J Larson wrote on Sep 1, 2007 10:04 AM:

" I am a happily married straight woman. That being said, we can't tell people whom they should fall in love with. And I don't think we should jeopardize them for doing so. Thankfully, my children the same understanding that I do. Live and let live. It doesn't hurt you. Why be so angry about it? I know about the Bible as well. I go to church. I also know that God does not not us to judge others. Leave people alone. Don't hate them because they chose to live differently. Live and do good works! Be happy! "

I knew it.... wrote on Sep 1, 2007 10:01 AM:

" It all started with letting blacks marry whites. Once you go black you never go back! Now our beautiful nation is letting anyone and anything get what is called "marriage." This is no longer sacred. Stick to the bible and don't let gays married or interracial marriages either. "

Unbelievable! wrote on Sep 1, 2007 10:00 AM:

" I had no idea that there were gay people in Iowa! I thought this was the Midwest, not Minneapolis. Oh. Never mind. "

a nation in trouble... wrote on Sep 1, 2007 8:29 AM:

" we as a nation are heading down a perilous path. i don't know how it happened, but the Judicial Branch of government seems to have gotten into the 'law making' business. it's supposed to be the majority of the house and senate (both federal and state levels), that make the laws. but now just one lone judge can make all the laws he wants, completly bypassing the democratic process. and having just one person make the rules or laws is never a good thing. "

Good. wrote on Sep 1, 2007 4:48 AM:

" It never did make sense to deny rights to fellow Americans. Next we need to extend the rights to straight singles that married people enjoy regarding sharing of benefits, property rights, etc. Singles have always carried more than their share of the tax load in this country and consumed less of the benefits. Just public school costs alone are an average of more than $10,000 per year per child. It's a good thing family sizes are shrinking. "


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